As much as Sugar Babies are concerned that they might not be fit enough, smart enough or cute enough, Sugar Daddies are also sometimes insecure about what they bring to the table. Whether it’s concerns about a ‘dad-bod’, a receding hairline, or an under-stuffed wallet, new SDs go through a host of reasons not to get involved in the Sugar Bowl.
Just like sometimes you’re attracted to a curvy brunette and sometimes a slim blonde, so too will a SB be looking for different things at different times. Some Sugar Babies are looking for a big monthly allowance, and some are looking for beautiful clothes and jewelry. Some SBs want to be wined and dined, and some want to travel to exotic destinations. And some just want to curl up on the couch with you after a long work day and watch a movie with a bottle of wine.
The key difference between the Sugar Bowl and average dating life, is that all participants are interested in an honest, open arrangement with no strings attached. From there, the varieties are endless! Just like in business, you have a unique value proposition – something that no one else can offer. Figure out what it is, throw your confidence behind it and let it be your market differentiator!
Consider your assets – are you witty, funny, adventurous, romantic? Think of what your past girlfriends said about you – what makes you unique and how can you play up your best attributes? If you’re the witty type, use that to write an amazing profile that will catch the eye of a potential SB. More adventurous? Use some of the photos in your collection to showcase your personality – skydiving? Bungee jumping? Nothing gets the blood pumping quicker! Romantic.. well that one’s easy – knock her off her feet with flowers and notes, surprises and sweet words.
The key thing is that you don’t count yourself out before you give it a shot – you could be just the thing that a Baby is looking for and the life you’ve always wanted could be at your fingertips. If you come across someone that doesn’t want what you have to offer, it’s simple to just move along. You want to connect with someone who has similar interests and shares a real chemistry with you so you have a real shot at a great arrangement!
At the end of the day, this lifestyle should be fun, honest and fulfilling for both people involved in an Arrangement. And when you find the right match, you’ll wonder what took you so long to give it a try!